Blog: Brave Conversations

From Wednesday to Friday this week I’ll be sharing a taster of the Self Care Challenge with a mini 3 day challenge focused on some of the things which stop us practicing self care. I know the term self care can feel so triggering at times. When someone says, “just […]

Blog: Why is self care so impossible?

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On Wednesday, we had Dr Lené Le Roux do a session for the Brave Mamas members all about burn out in early motherhood. She’s a GP who specialises in mental health, and helping moms manage their mental health is an area she is so knowledgeable and passionate about. I’ve been chewing […]

Blog: Let’s talk about burn out

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Permission to ask for help | Brave Mamas
Why is asking for help so hard? Join Brave Mamas founder, Kirsty Melmed, and members, Sarah Goodwin and Nicole Trautman, for an honest conversation about the pressure to cope alone, the guilt that can come with needing support, and what changes when we give ourselves permission to let others in. Watch it here: […]

Video: Permission to ask for help

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A story about trying to do it all One of my clients said something to me this week that I hear often and have experienced myself: “I feel like I’m working all the time but I’m not actually moving forward.” She’s building a business from home, in the pockets of time […]

Blog: Trying to do it all

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Control as care | Kirsty Melmed Life Coach
This week I’m sharing… A story about control disguised as care I was coaching a couple this morning (exciting, this is a new service I am offering) and I kept noticing something. They were talking about a family member who is going through a rough patch. And I kept hearing […]

Blog: Control disguised as care

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Kirsty Melmed Life Coach | morning-ritual
We are now three weeks into 2019. You are probably starting to settle back into your regular routine by now. I know this first month can feel challenging. After the fun and excitement of the holidays it is easy to feel disoriented and unsure of where to start with your […]

Blog: 3 Tips for Getting On Track This January

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Kirsty Melmed Life Coach | #LiveLifeAuthentically
What an exciting experience it was being interviewed by the South African Transactional Analysis Association on my work and how I bring TA into it. Living my passion and following my dreams more and more with every passing month that I get to do this incredible work! #LiveLifeAuthentically #coach #transactionalanalysis #interview  

Video: Interview with SATAA

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Kirsty Melmed | butterflylifecycle
For some time now I have been working to amalgamate the different parts that inform the way I work: Coaching, Transactional Analysis & Inner Tuition. This will be an on-going process for me as each is so valuable and contributes to my uniqueness as a coach. I saw the quote […]

Blog: Learning Through Thinking

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